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Work On This Skill To Be Your Most Powerful Self ✍️
They Really Are Mightier Than The Sword
The use of words is a skill most people are not working on.
Words can change minds and alter beliefs, for good or bad.
You have the power to bring someone from the slums of life and make a successful person out of them. Or destroy someone's happiness using only your words.
Seems too good to be true?
Mohammed Qahtani, 2015 Toastmaster Champion, helps us understand this better.
He tells us that you can have a wonderful thing to say. But say it in the wrong words, and the wonderful thing is gone.
He has a four-year-old son who has this bad habit of writing on the walls with crayons. One evening, he walked into his room, and his son was writing, drawing, etc., on the walls.
And Mohammed said:
"Hey! Are you stupid? Don't you ever do that again."
And what happened? He did it again. Nobody likes to be threatened or intimidated, but his pride would not allow it.
He did it again, just out of spite.
A week later, Mohammed walked into his room, and again, he was going at it with the crayons. And this time, he was even looking at his Dad straight in the eye as he was doing it! 🖍️👀
Mohammed came down to his level and said in a caring tone:
"Don't do that. You're a big boy now."
And he never did it again. Because his pride wants him to be 'the big boy.' 👦🏻
We have all experienced the power of words, for good or bad, and seen beliefs alter.
Meanwhile, Back At Your Desk
The Remote/Hybrid Era is the gift that keeps on giving. However celebrated, this structural change in the world of work has posed some tough challenges.
Put yourself in your manager's chair. According to data from Harvard, managers now spend 25 hours a week reading for business.
Think about that.
Five hours a day, from an eight-hour work day, is spent just reading. Emails, Slacks, Texts, Articles, Reports. Add in a few Zoom calls, and your day will be over.
What work did you get done?
You likely feel the same as your manager.
We can't influence the amount we have to read; we can influence what we write.
This week’s newsletter is brought to you by the PMA Book Club…oh, wait! It’s me appearing 🤣
I’m extending a warm invitation for you to join me live at the PMA Book Club on 10th April.
Here's what to expect:
⛔️ No frameworks
⛔️ No buyer journeys
⛔️ No talk about features
Only inspiration for your career and a few laughs along the way.
I'll cover:
🤘 Why I wrote this book
🤘 How I wrote this book
🤘 What you'll learn from reading this book
🤘 How I helped AC/DC in their hour of need
🤘 How I moved across five categories in my career
💡 I might even do a live reading of the 'Turkey Run' story from chapter two.
Whether you've read the book or not, please join me and ask me anything!
Your Greatest Challenge Is Not What You Think It Is
It's communication.
A survey of 10,000 high performers and L&D professionals by Section School lays this out bare.
Regarding skills in the modern workplace, they agree on only one thing.
Communication is the most significant gap, and words are at its heart. Just look at the summarised list:
Employees | L&D Leaders |
---|---|
Presentation and Conversation | Crucial Conversations |
Writing for Impact | Storytelling |
Now, when we consider that we're all staring at screens and reading all day, it becomes obvious why words in the written and spoken form need more prioritisation.
In order for you to progress in your career, you need to upgrade your words.
Get ready for YOU 2.0 🦾
The Things Marketers Write Will Surprise You
We take emails, shortform messages, and the like for granted. Heck, I used to get 200 emails a day during my time at Microsoft and think it was normal!
Getting 200 emails a day is not normal or healthy
2,000+ if I was on annual leave, of which only 5% were actionable. That really shows you how valuable this amount of communication is! 🤦
But that's just the day-to-day; we often don't consider the actual work we do, using words.
Seems marketers write a bunch! Thanks to WSJ Best-Seller author Ann Handley, she's spelt it out for us in her book, Everybody Writes:
TLDR? Here are the 20 things marketers write:
The new ideal length for every piece of content | Writing direct response email |
Why you need an email newsletter There is no third-party platform calling the shots. You own the data | Writing an email newsletter Set up a schedule, whether once a week or once a month. Just stick to it |
Writing a Home page | Writing the About Us page |
Writing landing pages | Writing headlines |
Writing infographics | Writing for video |
Writing for social media | Writing image captions |
Writing with hashtags | Writing your LinkedIn profile |
Writing for LinkedIn | Writing about hard stuff |
Writing a bolder boilerplate | Writing speech descriptions Focus on the audience, not the speaker |
Writing a sales letter | Ghostwriting |
That’s A Wrap
In sum, words can lift you up, put you down or alter beliefs. Words have power and a massive impact.
Yet, the Remote/Hybrid Era poses a huge communication challenge that no one is actively addressing.
You have an opportunity to make your impact felt; I urge you to take it.
Take stock of how much you actually write, and commit to learning and practising your written communications. Maybe one day you’ll write a multi-award winning book? 🤘
Keep on rockin!
Harvey
Top Tips To Be A Better Writer:
Take a writing course:
How to start writing (free)
Ship 30 for 30 (paid cohort-based but worth it)
Better writing comes from better reading:
Tools:
Grammarly (free and paid)
Hemingway Editor (free and paid)
AI for Busy Writers (free - brilliant for emails!)
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